I
 have a lot that I plan to write about hunting, firearms, sportsmanship 
and how a woman can chart her course through all of these male dominated
 fields, but to get to all of that I need to begin with my experiences 
“breaking in” to this “boy’s club”. The first few steps can often be the
 most difficult. 
A few days ago I wrote about finding a tribe of wild women to run with,
 and the sportsman’s club that hosted the local WWOW event. That club is
 very near my home, and seemed to hold the promise of a new community 
that could help me along my journey. The club runs various activities 
that are open to the public, including an evening handgun shooting 
event, designed to help beginners learn the ins and outs of basic 
firearms handling. This was especially perfect for one friend of mine 
who had attended WWOW with me and was primarily interested in learning 
about handguns. She wanted someone to accompany her to the evening 
shoots, which I completely understood, as a woman entering into this 
male dominated arena, which is already a little intimidating due to its 
potential for harm if handled incorrectly, the safety net provided by a 
member of your community that you already know and trust can be a vital 
component. I went along for the shoots and quickly got hooked and was 
going even once my friend stopped. 
| patches earned at the evening handgun shoots at my sportsman's club | 
It
 wasn’t long before, I started asking the guys running this event about 
the club and how to join. They explained the structure of dues, the need
 for someone to sponsor you, putting in work hours, etc. This sounded 
quite promising, my husband and I had been looking for a gun club to 
join and were running into walls including everything from thinly veiled
 racism to requirements to put in bartending hours (as Teatotalers and 
safety conscious individuals this was a big problem), as well as 
complicated or virtually nonexistent safety rules. Simultaneously I was 
working on my husband (who is a bit of an introvert) to get him to come out
 to the evening handgun shoots. He is far more interested in handguns 
than I am (he approaches firearms from a self defense minded 
perspective, while I come mainly from the hunting perspective), so I 
knew he’d enjoy it. Once convinced, he was immediately hooked and it 
wasn’t long before he was approached and offered sponsorship to become a
 member of the club. Don’t get me wrong, I was quite pleased to be 
joining the club, but I was a little flummoxed that he was offered 
sponsorship so quickly and I was unable to elicit such an offer despite 
having known these guys a fair amount longer, although not well by any 
stretch. 
During
 the process of becoming members we were told that I would be considered
 an “associate member” and that all of the same privileges were granted 
to me as to my husband, with the exception of voting for board members 
or holding office on the board myself. Only recently did I discover that
 this was, in fact, not the case; I cannot receive email newsletters or 
updates, am not granted membership to MUCC
 (Michigan United Conservation Clubs) and cannot independently log into 
or post in the forums, therefore I am now pursuing my own membership 
with my husband as my sponsor.
This
 serves to highlight the difficult position a woman can find herself in 
if she does not have a man of some relation to intercede on her behalf, 
to allow entry into the “boy’s club,” which is not to say this 
sportsman’s club in particular. Access to the entire world of shooting 
sports, hunting, and many other outdoors(wo)man activities can be 
limited if you do not either have some male friend or relative to 
“vouch” for you (which has it’s own issues), or have a woman who has 
gone before you and can help lead the way. Some of us get lucky and 
stumble upon a whole community of women who are ready to help guide you 
and share their knowledge and access. Below find a list of some 
resources for women interested in these fields:
Women On Target
 (this can be a good resource, however I still have some unresolved 
issues with the NRA on a number of political issue that do not 
necessarily even have to do with firearms)
| me with some of the women I've found while breaking into the boy's club |